Abstinence for Scam Victims – A Requirement For Healing – 2023 UPDATED 2026
Abstinence for Scam Victims – A Requirement For Healing – Updated 2026
The Crucial Role of Abstinence for Scam Victims: Navigating the Path to Recovery
Primary Category: Scam Victims Recovery Psychology
Authors:
• Tim McGuinness, Ph.D., DFin, MCPO, MAnth – Anthropologist, Scientist, Polymath, Director of the Society of Citizens Against Relationship Scams Inc.
Originally Published 2023 Updated 2026
Author Biographies Below
About This Article
Abstinence is a protective recovery strategy for scam victims that involves temporarily avoiding dating and other high-risk interpersonal engagements while healing from betrayal trauma. Relationship scams dysregulate attachment, reward, and threat systems, leaving victims cognitively impaired and emotionally vulnerable for months after discovery. Premature dating often functions as emotional bypassing, reinforces trauma bonding, and increases susceptibility to manipulation by scammers or abusive partners. Abstinence supports nervous system regulation, grief processing, identity reconstruction, and restoration of judgment. It is not isolation or punishment but a time-limited act of self-protection that prioritizes long-term safety over short-term emotional relief. When paired with structured support and education, abstinence reduces repeat victimization and prepares survivors for healthier relationships built on stability rather than need.
Note: This article is intended for informational purposes and does not replace professional medical advice. If you are experiencing distress, please consult a qualified mental health professional.
The Crucial Role of Abstinence for Scam Victims: Navigating the Path to Recovery
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