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title: "Conflicts In Care"
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author: "SCARS Editorial Team"
published: 2026-10-29
modified: 2026-10-29
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# Conflicts In Care

# Conflicts in Care

### A SCARS Institute [Scam Victim Recovery Insight](https://scamsnow.com/scars-institute-scam-victim-recovery-insights/)

## Why We Require Participation in One Recovery Program at a Time

There is a strange idea that, on the one hand, sort of looks logical, but on the other hand, does not. The idea is that if you join one support community and are progressing, maybe if you join other programs too, you will progress faster. You want to understand what happened, feel better, and rebuild your life. Seeking additional support seems like a reasonable way to strengthen that effort. The difficulty begins when separate programs take responsibility for guiding the same recovery process.

But here is the problem: conflicts in direction and care.

If you have cancer and you have a good oncologist, then you decide you need another to help you cure cancer even more quickly. You could do this, but as soon as one finds out, they would drop you as a patient because of both a care conflict and an ethical conflict with the professional. In fact, no doctor who knows you are getting care by another professional would provide care to you - a second opinion if you ask for it, yes, but not overlapping care - this is a legal conflict too, called "Interference of/in Care".

So if a person is enrolled in two (or more) different [scam victim recovery](https://scamsnow.com/glossary-term/scam-victim-recovery/) programs, the same conflict arises. Which program do you follow? What do you do when their guidance conflicts? What if there are schedule conflicts? Completely different approaches to recovery care?

Recovery involves more than attending meetings or collecting useful information. A structured program connects learning with reflection, practice, discussion, and changes in daily life. Its activities follow a purpose and sequence. Members need time to understand what they learn and apply it consistently. Adding another program introduces another framework, and the responsibility for reconciling those frameworks falls on the person already working through the consequences of victimization.

Conflicting guidance creates practical problems. One program asks you to focus on a particular recovery task while another directs your attention elsewhere. The programs give different explanations for the same experience or establish different expectations about participation. You then face questions about which guidance to follow and which commitments to prioritize. The resulting confusion takes attention away from the work you joined the programs to accomplish.

Scheduling also matters. Meetings, educational activities, personal exercises, and community participation require time and energy. Two programs compete for those resources even when their guidance appears compatible. Missing activities or dividing your attention changes your participation in each program. Providers also receive an incomplete picture when they do not know what other recovery work you are undertaking or what instructions influence your decisions.

SCARS Institute considers this overlap a conflict within the recovery relationship it offers. We undertake to provide support through a defined program, and we expect members to participate within that framework. We do not consider it appropriate to continue directing someone’s recovery while another independent program also directs the same process. Our participation requirement reflects that responsibility and the standards we establish for our own services.

As professionals, when we become aware of such a conflict, we believe the only ethical thing to do is withdraw care because of the conflict. Unfortunately, we are almost alone in the application of this kind of ethical standard. This alone tells you a lot about the state of professionalism in scam victim care.

Additionally, we operate on trust with each person who comes into our community. We ask if they are participating in another group or program up front. This is so we can look for this kind of program and potential conflicts of priorities. If someone was in a scammer [exposure](https://scamsnow.com/glossary-term/exposure/) group, then it is no problem, but if they are in a real program by another provider, regardless of quality or completeness, then it is.

The same issue exists with professional psychologists. If you have two therapists who don't know about each other, the client is only damaging their ability to receive focused care because of the conflict. There is nothing wrong with seeing a generalized therapist and a specialist at the same time, as long as they know about it.

We believe in transparency and explaining our policies, since it is your life at stake.

Transparency begins before enrollment. We ask whether applicants participate in another group or program so we can identify overlapping commitments and discuss them openly. The purpose of a group matters. Participation in a scammer [exposure](https://scamsnow.com/glossary-term/exposure/) group does not create the same program conflict as enrollment in another provider’s organized recovery program. The distinction concerns whether another provider also guides the person’s recovery and establishes expectations for that participation.

The quality or completeness of the other program does not remove the conflict. Two providers still operate through separate approaches and separate responsibilities. Our policy does not depend on proving that another program is inferior. It depends on establishing a clear agreement about the recovery process SCARS Institute provides and the participation required from each member.

Trust requires honest answers about those commitments. Members deserve to understand our expectations, and we need accurate information about their participation elsewhere. Concealing another program prevents us from addressing the conflict directly. We explain this requirement because members need the information before deciding whether our program fits their needs.

SCARS Institute members who choose another organized scam recovery program must conclude their participation with us. Individuals who begin elsewhere are welcome to apply after completing or leaving that program. Moving from one program to another allows a person to seek continued support without maintaining competing [recovery commitments](https://scamsnow.com/glossary-term/recovery-commitments/).

You need the ability to make informed choices and have confidence in the program you chose. Only choose one, and stick with it until it stops working for you or until it runs its course.

You retain the right to choose the program you believe serves you best. We ask you to make that choice deliberately, understand its expectations, and give its process your focused participation. Raise questions when guidance seems unclear and discuss concerns when something stops working for you. Choosing one program establishes a clear direction while you assess your progress and decide what you need next.

#### Excellentia Per Scientia.™

##### Prof. Emeritus Tim McGuinness, Ph.D. DFin.
SCARS Institute ™
Society of Citizens Against Relationship Scams Inc.
Scientific Center for the Analysis and Research into Scams™
September 2026