Shame-Approval Trap

July 2025

The Shame-Approval Trap – Performative Recovery – 2025

SCARS Editorial Team2025-07-01T23:16:16-04:00July 1st, 2025|Categories: • PSYCHOLOGY, • FEATURED ARTICLE, • FOR ADVOCATES, • FOR FAMILY AND FRIENDS, • FOR SCAM VICTIMS, 2025, ARTICLE, Tim McGuinness PhD|Tags: Performative Recovery, Shame-Approval Trap|

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