When the Next Crisis Comes – a Commentary by Vianey Gonzalez // Cuando Llegue la Próxima Crisis – un Comentario de Vianey Gonzalez- 2025
When the Next Crisis Comes // Cuando Llegue la Próxima Crisis
by Vianey Gonzalez
Primary Category: Scam Victim Recovery – Editorial & Commentary
Intended Audience: Scam Victims-Survivors / Family & Friends
Author:
• Vianey Gonzalez B.Sc(Psych) – Licensed Psychologist, Specialty in Crime Victim Trauma Therapy, Neuropsychologist, Certified Deception Professional, Psychology Advisory Panel & Director of the Society of Citizens Against Relationship Scams Inc.
About This Article in English
Experiencing a scam leaves lasting emotional scars, often resurfacing when new traumatic situations arise. Recovery is a long journey without a set timeline, influenced by personal resilience, environment, and available support. Despite significant progress, lingering effects remain, and certain events can trigger past memories as if they were happening again. A recent personal experience of aggression brought back intense feelings of vulnerability, fear, and anxiety, similar to those felt during the initial scam trauma. While self-awareness and coping strategies help in managing these emotions, it is crucial to recognize that healing is an ongoing process. Suppressing emotions can lead to unresolved wounds resurfacing, making it essential to acknowledge, process, and actively work through them. True recovery is achieved by recognizing, accepting, managing, and confronting emotions rather than ignoring them.