Healing Wounds // Sanando Heridas: A Story of Scam Victim Survival // Una Historia de Supervivencia de Una Víctima de Estafa – by/de Vianey Gonzalez
Healing Wounds // Sanando Heridas by/de Vianey Gonzalez
Recognizing and Healing Wounds: My Recovery Path After a Scam // Reconociendo y Sanando Heridas: Mi Camino de Recuperación tras una Estafa
Primary Category: Scam Victim’s Story
Intended Audience: Scam Victims-Survivors / Family & Friends
Author:
• Vianey Gonzalez B.Sc(Psych) – Licensed Psychologist Specialty in Crime Victim Trauma Therapy, Neuropsychologist, Certified Deception Professional, Psychology Advisory Panel & Director of the Society of Citizens Against Relationship Scams Inc.
About This Article
Nearly eight years after falling victim to a scam, I have come to realize that recovery is not just about addressing the visible damage but also about confronting the hidden wounds that remain. Fraud impacts us emotionally, psychologically, financially, and even spiritually, leaving scars that require intentional healing. Recently, I recognized a lingering spiritual wound that I had suppressed—a crisis of faith that arose during and after the scam, when I felt abandoned, betrayed, and alone. Through painful reflection, I have learned that suppressing these wounds only delays the healing process. Recovery is a gradual journey, unique to each individual, requiring commitment, acceptance, and the courage to face every hurt, no matter how small. Support groups and shared experiences have been invaluable in helping me embrace my pain, work through it, and grow stronger. Today, I am not afraid to acknowledge that healing hurts, but I also know that with dedication, it is possible to overcome and emerge as a survivor, transformed by the process.
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