Perfectionism Can Destroy a Scam Victim’s Recovery

Perfectionism: A Hidden Trap for Scam Victims Seeking Recovery

Primary Category: Scam Victims Recovery Psychology

Authors:
•  Vianey Gonzalez B.Sc(Psych) – Licensed Psychologist Specialty in Crime Victim Trauma Therapy, Neuropsychologist, Certified Deception Professional, Psychology Advisory Panel & Director of the Society of Citizens Against Relationship Scams Inc.
•  Tim McGuinness, Ph.D. – Anthropologist, Scientist, Director of the Society of Citizens Against Relationship Scams Inc.

About This Article

Perfectionism can become a significant barrier for scam victims trying to recover. After a scam, victims often feel an intense need to regain control, leading them to seek “perfection” in every recovery step—whether reporting the crime, joining support programs, or starting therapy.

This drive, however, keeps them trapped in endless cycles of hesitation and self-doubt, as perfection is both unattainable and unnecessary in these contexts. The demand for flawless actions delays healing and compounds stress, reinforcing feelings of inadequacy. True recovery starts when victims embrace imperfection, taking small, imperfect steps forward.

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