The Feeling of Defectiveness in Scam Victims – A Barrier to Recovery – 2024
The Feeling of Defectiveness in Scam Victims – A Barrier to Recovery
Understanding and Overcoming the Belief of Defectiveness in Scam Victims to Enable Their Psychological Recovery
Primary Category: Scam Victim Recovery Psychology
Author:
• Tim McGuinness, Ph.D. – Anthropologist, Scientist, Director of the Society of Citizens Against Relationship Scams Inc.
About This Article
Trauma from scams often leaves victims feeling deeply ashamed, inadequate, and overwhelmed by self-doubt. These emotions can crystallize into a belief of defectiveness—a conviction that they are fundamentally flawed or unworthy. This belief, fueled by self-blame, fear of judgment, and societal stigma, perpetuates a cycle of isolation and emotional pain, making recovery seem unattainable. However, understanding the roots of this belief, how it manifests, and the psychological and neurological processes at play is key to reclaiming self-worth and moving forward.
