For Advocates: Using Forthright Confrontation to Support Scam Victims

Forthright Confrontation is a Communication Method Victims’ Services Providers and Advocates can use to Support Traumatized Scam Victims

Primary Category: Scam Victim Recovery Psychology

Author:
•  Tim McGuinness, Ph.D. – Anthropologist, Scientist, Director of the Society of Citizens Against Relationship Scams Inc.
•  Portions based on the work by Dr. Jordan B. Perterson

About This Article

Forthright confrontation is a direct communication strategy that allows victims’ service providers and advocates to address difficult issues head-on, while still maintaining empathy and support.

This approach, emphasized by figures like Jordan B. Peterson, helps scam victims confront feelings of shame, guilt, or denial by clearly presenting the reality of their situation without avoiding tough conversations.

It encourages victims to face the trauma they’ve experienced, acknowledge it, and take active steps toward recovery. When used with care, forthright confrontation empowers victims to reclaim control over their lives by breaking through emotional barriers and fostering personal growth.

Forthright Confrontation is a Communication Method Victims’ Services Providers and Advocates can use to Support Traumatized Scam Victims

What is Forthright Confrontation?

Forthright confrontation is a communication strategy where someone addresses an issue, concern, or conflict in a direct, honest, and assertive manner.

The goal is to clearly present the problem or point of disagreement without sugarcoating or avoiding the issue while maintaining respect and fairness in the conversation. This approach emphasizes openness, transparency, and taking responsibility for one’s feelings and perspectives while encouraging the other party to do the same. It has been promoted by Dr. Jordan B. Perterson.

In forthright confrontation, the person engaging in this style of communication aims to resolve a conflict or clarify misunderstandings by bringing the issue to the forefront, ensuring that it is addressed and not ignored or swept under the rug. It is often used in conflict resolution, therapy, leadership, or personal relationships to promote honesty and foster a solution-oriented environment. In this way, it is an important part of the ‘exposure’ process to help scam victims-survivors face their issues head-on.

While forthright confrontation can be effective in resolving issues, it requires careful handling to avoid coming across as aggressive or insensitive. The key is balancing directness with empathy, ensuring that the conversation remains constructive.

Using Forthright Confrontation

Using forthright confrontation to support traumatized scam victims can be a delicate but effective approach when handled with care and empathy. Here’s how it can be applied:

Establish Trust and Empathy

Before engaging in forthright confrontation, it’s crucial to build a foundation of trust. Scam victims often feel shame, guilt, or isolation due to the nature of the exploitation. Ensure that they feel understood and supported. This includes affirming their experience and emotions without judgment.

Example:

“I know that what you went through was incredibly painful, and it’s understandable to feel angry or ashamed. It’s important to address these feelings openly, and I’m here to support you.”

Clearly & Directly Address the Issue

Once trust is established, gently but directly confront the victim’s behaviors Read More …