Scammers Are The New Boogeymen!

Author:
Tim McGuinness, Ph.D. – Anthropologist, Scientist, Director of the Society of Citizens Against Relationship Scams Inc.

Scammers, Fraudsters, And Con Artists Have Gained A Formidable Reputation As The New-Age Boogeymen, Lurking In The Digital Shadows, Waiting To Pounce On Unsuspecting Victims.

While there’s no denying the existence of scams and their devastating consequences, it’s essential to differentiate between the real threat and irrational fear.

Let’s explore the rise of scammers as the new boogeymen and the implications of this growing fear on society’s ability to effectively combat scams, focusing on online relationship scams, pig butchering investment scams, phone scams, and more.

What is a Boogeyman?

The boogeyman is a legendary creature used by parents to frighten their children into behaving. It is often depicted as a shadowy, amorphous figure that lurks in dark places and steals or punishes children who misbehave.

The boogeyman has been around for centuries, and its role in society has changed over time. In the past, the boogeyman was used to teach children about the dangers of the world, such as wild animals, strangers, and the dark. It was also used to enforce social norms and discourage children from engaging in risky behavior.

Today, the boogeyman is still used by some parents to discipline their children. However, it is also seen as a symbol of childhood fears and anxieties. The boogeyman can represent the unknown, the uncontrollable, and the dangerous. It can also represent the things that we fear about ourselves and our own darkness.

This is the great irony. Boogeymen are still needed to teach us about strangers, but we don’t really use them for that anymore. Or do we?

Meet Your Boogeyman!

Scammers have indeed become the modern-day boogeymen, scaring people and minimizing the real impact and horror of the crimes they commit.

Scammers are often portrayed as shadowy figures, lurking in the dark corners of the internet, waiting to prey on unsuspecting victims. This way of viewing scammers can make it difficult for victims to come forward and report their experiences, as they may feel ashamed or embarrassed for being fooled. It can also lead to a sense of complacency among the general public, as people may believe that they are immune to scams because they are “too smart” to be fooled.

In reality, scammers are often highly skilled and sophisticated criminals. They use a variety of techniques to manipulate and exploit their victims, and they can target anyone, regardless of their age, education, or social status.

The impact of scams can be devastating. Victims can lose their life savings, their homes, and even their livelihoods. They may also suffer from significant emotional distress, such as anxiety, depression, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and complex grief.

Despite the serious impact of scams, they are often minimized and trivialized, especially by amateur scam-sleuths. This is partly due to the portrayal of scammers as boogeymen, but it is also due to a lack of understanding of the nature of these crimes.

Scams are not just about money. They are about stealing people’s sense of security, their peace of mind, and their dignity. They are about exploiting people’s trust and vulnerabilities. These crimes are a violation, an act of violence!

It is important to remember that scammers are not boogeymen. They are real people who commit real crimes and do horrible damage to real people. And the impact of their crimes is very real.

The Era of Scammers: The Modern-Day Boogeymen

In our digitally connected world, scams have taken on new forms and dimensions. Online relationship scams, pig-butchering investment scams, and phone scams are just a few examples of the tricks employed by scammers. These criminals prey on people’s trust, vulnerability, and, often, their innate desire for love, financial stability, or security.

• Online Relationship Scams

Online relationship scams are emotional scams that can strike at the core of a person’s well-being. Scammers create fake profiles on dating sites or social media platforms, charming victims with attractive personas. Over time, these scammers build trust and affection with their victims, luring them into deep emotional connections. Eventually, the victims are duped into sending money or valuable items to the fraudsters. The emotional impact of these scams can be shattering, often leading to severe depression, anxiety, and post-traumatic stress disorder.

• Pig Butchering Investment Scams

Pig butchering investment scams are a financial variant of the traditional Ponzi scheme. Scammers promise high returns on investments in a fictitious or non-existent pig butchering business. Victims, drawn by the allure of easy money, invest their hard-earned savings. When the promised returns fail to materialize, victims often face financial ruin, including bankruptcy and loss of personal assets.

• Phone Scams

Phone scams have been a prevalent form of fraud for years. Scammers impersonate government officials, tech support agents, or other trusted figures to manipulate victims into divulging sensitive information or transferring money. These scams can lead to financial loss and emotional distress, especially when victims realize they’ve fallen prey to a well-executed hoax.

You can learn more about scam types and how they all work on RomanceScamsNOW.com

The Perils of Irrational Fear

The rise of these and other scams has contributed to the growing perception of scammers as the new-age boogeymen. However, it is vital to separate the real threat from the irrational fear that has started to spread in response to these scams. An irrational fear of scammers can have several negative consequences:

• Blame and Stigmatization

Rampant fear can lead to the stigmatization of scam victims. Victims may feel blamed for their misfortune and may not seek help or support for fear of further judgment. Stigmatization not only harms victims but also hinders efforts to prevent and combat scams.

• Hesitancy to Seek Help

When people are overwhelmed by fear, they may hesitate to seek help or report scams. They might be afraid of being perceived as gullible or weak, further exacerbating their emotional trauma. Scammers thrive on silence and secrecy, and this fear only aids their cause.

• Overgeneralization and Mistrust

Irrational fear can lead to overgeneralization, where individuals begin to mistrust almost everyone, including legitimate organizations and individuals. This distrust can strain relationships and even disrupt business activities. While caution is essential, extreme mistrust can be counterproductive.

• Ineffective Responses

Excessive fear can lead to knee-jerk reactions, such as avoiding all online interactions or refusing to engage with potential romantic partners. Such responses don’t help people become more aware and discerning; instead, they restrict personal growth and connection.

Balancing Awareness and Fear

The goal is not to discount the genuine risks posed by scams but to find a balance between awareness and irrational fear. Scams are real, and they can have severe consequences. Instead of succumbing to fear, individuals and society should adopt a more informed, empowered, and rational approach:

• Education and Awareness

Education is the most effective tool against scams. Promote education about different scams, their tactics, and red flags. Encourage discussions about online safety and help individuals become discerning without succumbing to irrational fear.

• Support for Victims

It’s essential to provide support for scam victims, emphasizing that they are not alone and that they have not failed. Organizations like the Society of Citizens Against Relationship Scams (SCARS) provide valuable support and resources for scam victims.

• Reporting Scams

Promote the reporting of scams to the relevant authorities. Reporting not only helps individuals potentially recover their losses but also contributes to building a broader understanding of scam patterns and emerging threats.

• Emphasize Critical Thinking

Encourage critical thinking and skepticism, especially when faced with unsolicited requests for money or personal information. Teach individuals to verify the legitimacy of offers, profiles, and requests before taking any action.

• Protecting Personal Information

Emphasize the importance of safeguarding personal information. Teach individuals about secure online practices, such as using strong, unique passwords, enabling two-factor authentication, and being cautious about sharing personal data.

• Staying Informed

Stay informed about current scams and frauds. Awareness of evolving scam tactics can help individuals protect themselves effectively.

• Mental Health Support

Recognize that victims of scams may experience emotional trauma. Encouraging mental health support and therapy can help individuals recover from the emotional impact of falling victim to a scam.

What You Can Do!

Here are some things that can be done to address the problem of scams:

• Raise awareness of scams and their impact. People need to understand that scams are a serious problem and that anyone can be a victim. Share our posts and refer people to our websites: RomanceScamsNOW.com and ScamsNOW.com
• Educate people about how to spot and avoid scams. There are resources available from SCARS that can help people learn about the different types of scams and how to protect themselves.
• Support victims of scams. It is important to provide support to victims of scams, both emotional and financial. Help them find professional help, such as SCARS Support Groups and counseling or therapy – most victims will need it to recover.

Report every scam so that law enforcement can investigate and prosecute scammers. Law enforcement needs every report because often the pieces from several reports can come together to allow investigations and prosecutions of scammers to bring them to justice and deter others from committing these crimes.

By taking these steps, we all can help to reduce the impact of scams and protect people from these criminals.

Do NOT minimize these crimes, they are as serious as they get! Scammers KILL!

Please Remember

While scams, including online relationship scams, pig butchering investment scams, phone scams, and so many more, these are real threats, it’s crucial to avoid the trap of irrational fear. Viewing scammers as the new boogeymen can lead to detrimental outcomes, such as victim-blaming, stigmatization, and an atmosphere of extreme mistrust. Instead, a balanced approach that combines awareness, education, support for victims, and a rational outlook can empower individuals to protect themselves without becoming paralyzed by fear.

By fostering a more informed and discerning society, we can work collectively to reduce the effectiveness of scammers and minimize their impact on vulnerable individuals.

Scams are real, but together, we can overcome them.

More:

• SCARS CHERRY BOOK – A Guide To Understanding Your Fear – SCARS Company Store (againstscams.org)
• Trauma-Induced Fear May Cause Paranoia (romancescamsnow.com)
• Long Term Fear & Phobias From Scam Victim Trauma (romancescamsnow.com)
• How Fear Affects You After A Scam – SCARS™ Psychology of Scams (romancescamsnow.com)
• SCARS™ Psychology Of Scams: Victim Response To Fear Is Anger! (romancescamsnow.com)
• Motivational Denial (scamsnow.com)
• Filling The Victim Void After The Fake Relationship Is Gone 2023 (scamsnow.com)
• Do Scam Victims Become Cynics After Their Scam Experience? 2023 (scamsnow.com)
• Relationship Scams And Their Impact On Memory (scamsnow.com)

SCARS Resources:

• For New Victims of Relationship Scams newvictim.AgainstScams.org
• Subscribe to SCARS Newsletter newsletter.againstscams.org
• Sign up for SCARS professional support & recovery groups, visit support.AgainstScams.org
• Find competent trauma counselors or therapists, visit counseling.AgainstScams.org
• Become a SCARS Member and get free counseling benefits, visit membership.AgainstScams.org
• Report each and every crime, learn how to at reporting.AgainstScams.org
• Learn more about Scams & Scammers at RomanceScamsNOW.com and ScamsNOW.com
• Global Cyber Alliance ACT Cybersecurity Tool Website: Actionable Cybersecurity Tools (ACT) (globalcyberalliance.org)
• Self-Help Books for Scam Victims are at shop.AgainstScams.org
• Donate to SCARS and help us help others at donate.AgainstScams.org
• Worldwide Crisis Hotlines: International Suicide Hotlines – OpenCounseling : OpenCounseling
• Campaign To End Scam Victim Blaming – 2024 (scamsnow.com)

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